Hope my story helps you!
Like most girls out there, I also grew up believing that I will have a beautiful love story and the man will love me so much that I will feel complete and fulfilled in life. Because in the world and society we live in, we are constantly told that we will grow up to find our better-half and get happily married. Isn’t it?
Of course it’s wonderful to share your life with someone special in a happy relationship/marriage. But what no one ever tells us is that we are not incomplete without them and that we are complete, whole and fulfilled within ourselves as an individual. We have to create our happiness first and that our partner will only add to that happiness. No one tells us that until we learn to love ourselves, we will not only be chasing love in unhealthy ways but will have a hard time in even receiving someone’s love.
So even though I was fortunate enough to receive a lot of love, I faced problems in my love-life because of being unaware of my deep-rooted insecurities and unmet emotional needs, and mostly because of my inability to truly receive and accept someone’s love without being scared of losing it. I realized that not only was I not loving myself enough throughout this journey, I was losing a part of myself by not creating my own happiness first.
Therefore, to build a happy relationship with myself and eventually being able to be in a healthy loving relationship with that special someone, I decided to find out everything there was about love, reasons behind failed relationships, self-worth, secrets to happy relationships/marriages and so on. Since I was working as a lawyer for the past many years, the alarmingly increasing rate of divorce and failed relationships also inspired me to find out what goes wrong and why is it so hard to maintain healthy, loving relationships in our lives. I knew that the quality of our personal relationships greatly impacts our overall sense of well-being, so I put my heart and soul in going to the depths of the reasons for breakdown of relationships and their solutions.
The search for these answers led me to my spiritual journey as well. Fortunately. I learnt how to bring peace and self-love in my life and trust the universe about how life is always working in our favour if we live righteously. I also learnt how important it is to stay in the present moment and living life fearlessly being our true authentic self.
While learning about love and relationships, I was amazed by finding out the depth of the process of creating happy relationships in our lives. Just like success in career takes work, creating a loving bond with your partner and having other meaningful relationships also need equal work. But unfortunately, no one teaches us how to do that work. No one teaches us how to navigate the world of relationships successfully. No one teaches how to build a relationship with ourselves. No one teaches us how we can create love and happiness for ourselves and for others.
But then I found out that in our day and age, there are people who have started teaching all this. I am very grateful to all the relationship coaches and the self-help books which helped me with my emotional healing. I healed my childhood wounds, improved my self-worth and faced my fear of abandonment. This healing was extremely transformational and after 30 years of life, I developed a happy relationship with myself 🙂
It filled me with immense gratitude to be able to create my own happiness and peace and being ready to create loving relationships in my life. But I realized that just like me, there are so many people who face the same struggles. People deal with heartbreaks, divorces, dysfunctional family dynamics and that it is possible to fix these problems and relationships with some outside help. So I felt this strong calling to help people and I decided to become a Life and Relationship Coach.
So I enrolled myself in certificate courses of Life & Relationship Coaching. While studying them, I learnt how our beliefs and deep-rooted fears affect our life so much and how to change that to eliminate unnecessary stress from our lives.
It is now my life’s mission to help as many people as I can to create peace and happiness in their lives so that they can be in a wonderful romantic partnership and also have many meaningful loving personal relationships with important people in their lives like family, friends, etc. I also want to help people recognize their strengths so that they can easily handle and resolve the challenges life throws at us.
Life has nudged me to follow my inner calling. And if you are reading this, I would be more than happy to help you move forward on your journey towards inner peace, true love or a happy marriage and creating happiness within yourself and for your loved ones 🙂